AfterCare Resources

Practical guidance, checklists, and trusted contacts to help you take the next steps—one at a time.

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If You Need Help Right Now...

Start here for the most urgent tasks in the first days after loss

Notify Close Family & Employer

Contact immediate family, close friends, and employer

Secure Home & Property

Lock doors, forward mail, protect valuables

Order Death Certificates

Request 10-15 certified copies (needed for accounts)

Contact Social Security / VA

Report death to receive applicable benefits

Finalize Obituary / Service

Complete any remaining service details

Start an Estate File

Gather will, insurance, bank statements, titles

Emergency: If you or someone you know is in crisis, call 911 or text 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline)

Post-Funeral Checklist

Take things one step at a time. These timelines help you know what to do and when.

Important Phone Numbers & Websites

Quick access to the agencies and organizations you may need to contact

Always confirm hours and requirements before visiting or calling

Social Security Administration

Report death, stop benefits, apply for survivor benefits

You'll need:

  • Death certificate
  • Social Security number
  • Date and place of death

Veterans Affairs (VA)

Burial benefits, survivor benefits, military honors

You'll need:

  • DD-214 (discharge papers)
  • Death certificate
  • Marriage certificate (for survivor benefits)

Credit Bureaus (Fraud Protection)

Place fraud alert or credit freeze to prevent identity theft

Equifax: 1-800-685-1111
Experian: 1-888-397-3742
TransUnion: 1-800-916-8800

IRS (Taxes & Identity Protection)

File final tax return, estate taxes, identity theft PIN

Tennessee Vital Records Office

Order additional certified death certificates

Local County Health Departments:

  • Franklin County Health Dept. 931-967-3826 1571 N. Jackson St., Tullahoma, TN 37388
  • Lincoln County Health Dept. 931-433-7121 711 S. Main St., Fayetteville, TN 37334
  • Moore County Health Dept. 931-759-7224 103 E. Madison St., Lynchburg, TN 37352
  • Bedford County Health Dept. 931-684-5105 200 Dover St., Shelbyville, TN 37160
  • Coffee County Health Dept. 931-723-5179 1329 McArthur St., Manchester, TN 37355

Crisis Support & Grief Hotlines

24/7 support if you're in crisis or need someone to talk to

Crisis Lines (24/7):

988 - Suicide & Crisis Lifeline
Text HELLO to 741741 - Crisis Text Line

Grief Support Hotlines:

AARP Grief & Loss Hotline: 1-866-797-2277
National Hospice Helpline: 1-800-658-8898

Online Grief Resources:

GriefShare.org - Find local grief support groups
Dougy.org - Children's grief support center
WhatsYourGrief.com - Articles, podcasts, and resources
RefugeInGrief.com - Writing and community support
Important Safety Information

Protecting Against Fraud & Identity Theft

Unfortunately, scammers sometimes target grieving families. Taking a few protective steps now can prevent headaches later.

Notify Credit Bureaus

Place a fraud alert or credit freeze with Equifax, Experian, and TransUnion

Watch for Fake Invoices

Be cautious of "past due medical bills" or unexpected charges—verify before paying

Protect Personal Information

Never share Social Security numbers or banking info over phone unless you initiated the contact

Secure Mail and Online Accounts

Forward mail, change passwords, and monitor accounts for suspicious activity

Be especially careful with:

  • • Obituary information (avoid listing birthdates, addresses, or "survived by" details that reveal who lives alone)
  • • Unsolicited funeral home bills or monument offers
  • • Charity fundraising requests claiming to represent the family

Fraud Protection Checklist

Grief Support Resources

You don't have to navigate grief alone. Help is available.

What Grief Can Feel Like

Grief is different for everyone. You might feel sadness, anger, numbness, guilt, or even relief—sometimes all at once. You might struggle to focus, sleep, or eat. Some days will feel harder than others, and that's completely normal.

There's no "right way" to grieve, and there's no timeline. Be gentle with yourself. Healing doesn't mean forgetting—it means learning to carry the loss while moving forward.

Local Grief Counseling

One-on-one or family counseling with licensed therapists who specialize in grief and loss.

Castle Counseling Center

★ 5.0

1st Avenue SW Old Bank Building, Suite 200

(931) 636-0388 Open · Closes 7 PM

Winchester Counseling Center

★ 5.0

101 Dogwood Ln

(931) 581-9138 Closed · Opens 1 PM

"Amazing staff who only want the best for you."

Robinson Mental Health

★ 5.0 (16)

100 1st Ave SW Suite 202E, 3rd Floor

(256) 929-6188 Open · Closes 8 PM

"Very professional and extremely knowledgeable!"

Support Groups

Meet others who understand what you're going through in a safe, supportive environment.

Wings of Hope Widows Ministry

Christian-based support group for widows and widowers navigating grief and loss

GriefShare Groups

Find local grief support groups meeting in churches and community centers

Local Church & Community Groups

Many local churches and community organizations offer grief support groups. Contact us for current meeting schedules and locations.

Children & Teen Grief Support

Age-appropriate counseling and support groups designed specifically for young people processing loss.

  • [Children's Grief Center]
  • [School Counseling Resources]

24/7 Crisis & Grief Hotlines

Immediate support available anytime, day or night.

  • 988 - Suicide & Crisis Lifeline
  • Text HELLO to 741741 - Crisis Text Line

If you are in immediate crisis or considering self-harm, please call or text 988 right now. You are not alone, and help is available.

Frequently Asked Questions

Common questions families ask during the aftercare period

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This page provides general guidance and is not legal or financial advice.

Please confirm requirements with agencies, as policies may vary by location.